Couples mode
Consent-first rules (non-negotiable)
A healthy relationship is built on respect and communication. This game should reinforce that.
House rules (copy/paste)
- Either person can pass—no guilt trips, no “come on.”
- Any physical dare requires an explicit yes first.
- Boundaries are real: they can change any time.
- No dares that embarrass your partner in public.
- No threats, no “prove you love me,” no pressure.
- If a prompt hits a sensitive topic, pause and switch to a lighter one.
Relationship reality check: respect includes respecting emotional + physical boundaries. If you’re not sure what your partner’s boundaries are, ask.
Truth questions (sweet + deep)
Sweet
- What’s one moment you felt really loved by me?
- What’s a small habit of mine you secretly find adorable?
- What’s something you want more of in our relationship (time, words, touch, space)?
- When do you feel most connected to me?
- What’s a memory with me that you replay in your head?
- What’s one thing I do that makes you feel supported?
- What’s a “perfect day” we could plan together this month?
- What’s something you’re proud of that you want me to notice more?
Deep (still respectful)
- What’s a boundary you want us to protect better (time, privacy, social, digital)?
- What’s a conflict pattern you want us to improve—and what would help?
- What’s one fear you have in relationships (and how can I support you)?
- What’s one request you’ve been nervous to ask for?
- What does “respect” look like to you on a bad day?
- What’s one thing you wish we could talk about more easily?
Dares (romantic + playful)
- Give a 30-second compliment “speech” about your partner (no jokes).
- Write a 1-sentence love note and read it out loud.
- Pick a song and slow-dance for 45 seconds.
- Plan a mini date: 3 options, each under 30 minutes.
- Do a 60-second shoulder/hand massage (ask first).
- Make a silly “couple handshake” and perform it perfectly once.
- Recreate your first-date vibe in 60 seconds (tone + one sentence).
Optional upgrade: “Yes / No / Maybe”
If you want to explore sensitive topics without pressure, borrow a “Yes / No / Maybe” framework: each person answers privately, and you only discuss overlaps. It’s a simple way to protect boundaries.
Yes: comfortable
Maybe: discuss first
No: not for me
How to keep it respectful
Mini hosting script
- “Passing is normal. No explanations needed.”
- “Anything physical: we ask first, and a ‘no’ ends it.”
- “If something feels heavy, we pause and switch to a lighter prompt.”
- “The goal is connection, not winning.”
Sources
- Planned Parenthood: healthy relationship basics (communicate, be honest, respect space, talk openly). View source
- love is respect: boundaries + respecting a partner’s boundaries (ask; don’t pressure; boundaries can change). View source